Watch: The Ones Left Behind
Ettiappan lost his daughter to suicide by self immolation, thanks to domestic abuse.
While he now rues that he did not stand by his daughter when she was alive, he also echoes a sense of "victim blaming" and "shame" that his very young daughter made bad choices.
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(Correction: An earlier version of this video story had misspelt the subject's name. This has been corrected now.)